Caregiving is often a round-the-clock gig, especially when caring for someone who is disabled or critically ill.
You must take time for yourself, and your life. That 'time off' from being on-duty primary caregiving is called respite.
Caregiving takes a lot of energy, optimism, and compassion, but that is in a variety of supply. Respite is time off for YOU to do what you want or need to do. Unfortunately, scheduling reliable backup is a challenge for many family caregivers.
Respite care can be for an afternoon, a day, a week, or a month.
An at-home respite caregiver enjoying a cup of tea with an elderly woman outside. Respite time is good for everyone.
There are three primary ways that most caregivers find and arrange respite care, but there are two significant distinctions. A main consideration is location: will respite care be at home or in a community facility?
First, ask friends or relatives to help if they have the necessary skills and time to step in. If you have the proverbial "village" of family, this is a good option if everyone gets along with the person who needs care.
A benefit is that the person needing care can stay home where they are likely most comfortable and spend time with someone familiar.
Second, there are online professional marketplaces like Care.com that have local senior care, special needs care, and housekeeper resumes for you to peruse. Think of this as a job board like Indeed and Craigslist; employers (you) looking for caregivers post their skills, continue at Care.com, and search a list of local care providers.
We recommend Care.com for its localization, breadth of skills available, caregiver profiles, and bench strength. Schedule help as and when needed, whether it’s a few hours each week to cover last-minute conflicts or plan some away time.
Caregivers choose this type of respite care support for help after recovery after illness, hospitalization, or complex medical conditions requiring attention to detail. At-home caregivers can also learn from these "pros.
We've found that these professionals often have more than one skill that helps care for someone. For example, when you hire a special needs caregiver or a senior care aide, they may also do light housekeeping or meal prep.
The dual benefit is that the person who needs care remains in their home and gets to socialize with someone outside the family group.
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Finding the right care for your family can be challenging especially while balancing the daily demands of caregiving.
A community or facility is a good option if more extensive skills or care is needed for a more extended period. Respite care facilities are a solution for families needing a break or help with caregiving but not ready for long-term institutional care.
A 24-hour care community ensures that the person needing care has attention, oversight, and supervision in a professional, safe environment.
The main benefits here are skilled 24-hour care by more than one professional and a community of people. Some choose the care communities they are "trying out" for possible long-term care to see if it fits their needs and hopes.
Whether you need residential in-home respite care or someone qualified and experienced to assist your loved one more permanently, another great benefit of hiring out for respite care is expanding the care "village."
Respite is a way to support family caregivers caring for their loved ones at home. You can choose from many respite care venues, including at-home with another caregiver, adult medical day programs, and approved respite facilities.
With a tip of the hat to the great Aretha Franklin, we borrow the chorus lyrics for "Respect." We hope it inspires you caregivers to take some time for yourself.
R-E-S-P-I-T-E Find out what it means to me R-E-S-P-I-T-E Take care, TCB
If you want additional respite planning resources, you can visit the National Respite Locator Service, a U.S. Administration on Aging public service that helps locate services related to eldercare, including paid respite care.
While respite can help relieve caregiver stress, if your family member’s needs have surpassed what you can handle, you need more support than respite care can provide.
Care.com connects you to vetted professionals to help you manage the daily demands of child care, senior care, pet care, and housekeeping.
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