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Books on Caregiving That We’re Loving

Written by Michele Houck
November 15, 2022
Books on Caregiving That We’re Loving
Find books to help caregivers learn about how to manage and communicate effectively with their care team, family, doctors, insurers, legal team, and accountants.

In the role of caregiver, there is a LOT to learn. For this book bag, we have selected books written by people who have 'been there and done that'.

We research books to educate us as caregivers, console us when we feel overwhelmed or lost, help breakdown barriers and remind us that we’re not on this journey alone.

In no particular order, here are some staff picks from our bookshelves.

1. The Conscious Caregiver

by Linda Abbit

Linda Abbit, founder of Tender Loving Eldercare and a veteran of the caregiving industry, shares her advice in her book, The Conscious Caregiver, on caring for an older parent or loved one and how to handle everything that goes along with this dramatic life change. She teaches us that a healthy caregiver is a more effective caregiver and how to understand what health means - mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical.

2. The Soul of Care

The Moral Education of a Husband and a Doctor, by Dr. Arthur Kleinman

When Dr. Arthur Kleinman was his wife Joan's caregiver after she was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's disease, he is a husband, a caregiver, and an eminent Harvard psychiatrist and social anthropologist. Yet, in his caregiving role, he discovered how far caregiving extends beyond the boundaries of medicine.

His book, The Soul of Care: The Moral Education of a Doctor, also focuses on societal issues as medical technology makes incredible advances coupled with higher healthcare costs. In addition, he addresses care advocacy challenges for patients, caregivers, and just humans.

Arthur Kleinman is a member of the National Academy of Medicine and the American Academy of Arts and Sciences.

3. Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End

by Atul Gawande

The book, Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End poses several questions that our society is currently grappling with. How do we age, consider aging and deal with the consequences of aging?

How can people live with age-related frailty, serious illness, and approaching death? Gawande makes a compelling call for functional changes in how medical professionals treat patients approaching their end of life. He recommends that we collectively prioritize well-being and ways to improve quality of life vs. more time just surviving.

The author shares the personal experiences of his patients and relatives, which are stories about aging realities like dementia, broken bones, loss of independence, loneliness, overwhelmed families, and expensive geriatric care.

"It is not death that the very old tell me they fear. It is what happens short of death—losing their hearing, memory, best friends, and way of life." Atul Gawande

4. Already Toast

by Kate Washington

In the post-pandemic world, there is a lot of energy around trying to better understand and grapple with supporting family caregiving roles. If you become a caregiver for a spouse at a young age, it can be devastating, confusing, and surprising.

Already Toast is a firsthand account of how all-life consuming the unpaid caregiving role for a spouse can be a wife and a mother of young children. It is a first-hand account of caregivers that are called the sandwich generation.

When Kate Washington's husband, Brad, learned he had cancer, they were a young couple: professionals with ascending careers and parents to two small children. Brad’s diagnosis changed and altered their identities: he is not just her husband, but they transform immediately into a patient and caregiver dynamic.

5. Extreme Measures

by Jessica Nutik Zitter, MD

"Finding a Better Path to the End of Life." When medical professionals question how we consider health, living, and dying, they approach it from a unique lens. When Dr. Zitter went into healthcare, she wanted to save lives, lessons she's learned make this narrative so rich.

In Extreme Measures: Finding a Better Path to the End of Life, Dr. Zitter surfaces what patients fear more than death itself: dying badly or horribly with the excessive use of technology.

6. A Beginner’s Guide to the End

by BJ Miller, MD, and Shoshana Berger

This is a pragmatic and realistic conversation on living and dying with some actual 'how-to' reframing on how we individually and culturally think about these topics.

The book, A Beginner’s Guide to the End, is a clear-eyed conversation on social issues we are either nervous about discussing or don't even consider talking about; that is, until we are forced to.

7. Toolkit for Caregivers

by Deidre Edwards, RN

Toolkit for Caregivers: Tips, Skills, and Wisdom to Maximize Your Time Together is a 'how-to' book we love. Most of us will become caregivers at some point, and it is a challenging role to approach proactively. This toolkit is a reliable go-to resource when you need to know how to prepare yourself and your family best.

Deidre Edwards, RN, is the author and a speaker who focuses on personal development in total body wellness, caregiving skills, and surviving life transitions.

8. Working Daughter: A Guide to Caring for Your Aging Parents While Making a Living

by Liz O’Donnell

Working Daughter: A Guide to Caring for Your Aging Parents While Making a Living

This book is about managing careers, children, and balancing caregiving for parents – along with marriages and friendships.

An estimated 10,000 people reach age 65 every day, and a shortage of caregivers is predicted in the next few years. This book discusses how family caregivers and their employers face the ripple effects of a rapidly aging society.

9. The Unexpected Journey of Caring

by Donna Thomson and Zachary White

This book speaks to caregiving as it unfolds, in all emotional confusion, chaos, adjustments, and messiness. It is informed by original caregiver research and proven advocacy strategies.

You won’t find overused clichés or care stereotypes in this book. Also, there are no promises to help caregivers return to a life they knew before caregiving. The Unexpected Journey of Caring is a practical guide to finding personal meaning in the 21st-century care experience.

Becoming a caregiver puts us where we rethink everything we once knew. We redefine core life-stabilizing concepts like responsibilities, roles, beliefs, expectations, and relationships.

10. Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy

by Sheryl Sandberg and Adam Grant

Part memoir and part foundation, this book is a memoir, self-help, and motivational guide to dealing with adversity and building resilience in the face of hardship. The book is written by Sandberg, the COO of Facebook and the founder of, and Adam Grant, a renowned organizational psychologist and author.

This book is based on Sandberg's personal experience of coping with the loss of her husband, and how she and her family found a way to move forward. The first part is the story of loss and grief. The second part of the book is about resilience and how to build it. The ending is about joy and how to find it even in the darkest of times.

11. A Bittersweet Season

Caring for Our Aging Parent and Ourselves, by Jane Gross

A Bittersweet Season is a memoir about caring for an aging parent, written by New York Times journalist Jane Gross. When Gross's mother is diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease, she becomes her primary caregiver, navigating the challenges of finding quality care and balancing the demands of her own life.

Through her personal story, Gross explores the bittersweet experience of caring for an aging parent and the difficulties of letting go. The book is a touching and honest portrayal of the joys and heartaches of caregiving. Experiencing something similar?

12. The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook

 by Martha Davis, Ph.D, Elizabeth Robbins Eshelman, MSW, and Matthew McKay, Ph.D

The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook is a comprehensive guide to managing stress and finding relaxation. Whether you're looking to reduce stress, improve your relationships, or simply find more peace and happiness, this book is a valuable resource.

13. Living with Dying

by Jahnna Beecham and Katie Ortlip

Living with Dying is a practical guide to caring for someone with a terminal illness. Written by hospice caregivers Jahnna Beecham and Katie Ortlip. The book provides a compassionate and holistic approach to caring for someone who is dying.

14. Juggling Life, Work, and Caregiving

by Amy Goyer 

Amy Goyer, is an expert on caregiving and aging. She draws on her personal caregiver experience and research to provide a wide range of practical tips and strategies for managing caregiving responsibilities. The book has four resource packed sections: 

  1. Understanding the caregiving challenges
  2. Time management and organizational strategies
  3. How to access caregiver resources and support systems
  4. How to maintain relationships with friends/family while caregiving.

The book, Juggling Life, Work, and Caregiving is easy to read, and the tips and strategies are practical and actionable.

15. The Caregiver's Path to Compassionate Decision Making

by Viki Kind, MA

This book is a guide for family caregivers to navigate through the difficult decision-making process that comes with caregiving.

It focuses on end-of-life planning topics such as aging and ailing care, legal and financial issues, and self-care for caregivers.

16. The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers

Looking After Yourself and Your Family While Helping an Aging Parent by Barry J. Jacobs

This book has practical strategies and tools to help caregivers navigate the emotional challenges of caring for an aging parent. 

The author is a clinical psychologist, who addresses a compassionate and understanding approach to the difficulties that caregivers face, such as guilt, fear, stress, and burnout. Importantly, he provides guidance on how to maintain healthy relationships with other family members

Keep on caring and advocating. If you read these books too, let us know what you think of them.

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